Ah, Fluke, come on in. Take a seat. No not there, sit on the couch. In fact lie down. Take a load off. Relax… and let’s see if we can’t get to the route of this anger you have.
I gotta be honest, it usually stems back to our mothers. Freud thought so.
So how is your relationship with your mom? Good? That’s good, not too close I hope, you’re not a mamma’s boy, are you? Sorry, but that could be destructive under the right circumstances. Let’s move on.
Looking in my notes I see something happened in 1996 that might have had some strain on this relationship.
Seems your mom had an affair with one of the neighbors. How did that betrayal effect you? It must have been rough, a momma’s boy like you.
What about your father? It must have been really bad on him. He must have hated your mom. And those around him pointing and whispering. It had to be pretty unbearable. I mean here’s this happy little community rocked with scandal and your family was at the brunt of it all. Just devastating.
It says here in my notes, that the families were all pretty close up to this point. (we know now some were closer than others of course) This must have really been hard on the whole family. All the rumors. Something was said about your sister, right? Must have been difficult to deal with. Is this where you first started to hate your neighbors?
Life was good up to then, right? I mean all the neighbors all got along really well, no one was trying to “run” any one off at this point, right? Just a nice place to grow up?
Or is there more to it then that. Some of those rumors that went beyond your mom and sister.
Did someone do something to you when you were younger? Took advantage of your innocence? Is there something you have kept bottled up inside till it wanted to explode. You can talk about it now if you wish. It wasn’t your fault you must know that. And keeping things like that inside not only hurts you, but any one else that is misused by an adult the way you might have been, we must speak up to end these acts of disturbed individuals .
I’m sorry times up, Junior. We’ll have to get into that next time. That and so much more. We need to get to the root of this anger problem of yours. So much here in my notes to discus. Fires, anti social behavior, the need to buy love. Yes much to cover, so until then, try to relax. I promise we will get to the bottom of this together.